Dating and travelling can go hand-in-hand – literally and figuratively. All that you require is a little common sense when it comes to safety (i.e., meet in public places, and use your best judgment about second locations) and a few tips.
Here’s a short guide to dating while travelling, complete with tips and considerations for on-the-road romance.
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Pack for Hygiene, Versatility and Sophistication
Unfortunately, when travelling, you are what you pack. Your clothes say a lot about you –the first and last impression you present to the strangers you meet abroad. If you plan on dating while travelling, pack for hygiene, versatility and sophistication.
The best way to tick all three boxes is with merino wool. Merino is antibacterial and sweat-wicking, meaning that it keeps you odourless even on hot and sweaty days. And provided you buy your merino from a good brand, it can also be classy, casual, simple and sleek. A collection of merino wool t shirts in your luggage will never steer your wrong.
Learn the Local Customs and Etiquette
Remember, you’re playing an “away game.” It’s incumbent on you to learn and respect the local customs and etiquette – not the other way around. If it’s taboo to show public displays of affection, refrain from trying. If it’s customary to meet the family first – it may seem supremely weird, but meet the family first.
Do a little research before you start dating so that your date doesn’t have to explain everything on the fly.
Be Upfront About What You’re Looking for
Looking for a fling, a few strings-free dates or a fun night out? Be upfront about it. It’s unacceptable to mislead people in your home country, and those same rules apply abroad.
Don’t worry: in most places, you’re bound to find locals who are in lockstep with what you want.
Make an Effort with the Language
There’s nothing sexier, more chivalrous or – frankly – respectful than someone who makes an earnest attempt to be accommodating.
Before assuming that English will be the lingua franca of your dating experiences, make an effort to learn the language. Even just a few key phrases will help. In most parts of the world, your date will probably prefer to slip back into English. But they’ll appreciate the attempt.
Connect with Local Expat Groups
If the language differences pose too significant a barrier, consider connecting with local expat groups on social media. Often, expat groups band together on Facebook pages, Meetup groups or public WhatsApp groups. They occasionally meet for drinks at a bar (or several bars) or coordinate activities around town.
Attending these events could be an excellent way to find a date, provided that you’re respectful of everyone’s boundaries. Some people attend these groups to escape advances and leers, so use your common sense.
As with dating anywhere, the essential advice is to look presentable, be respectful, be honest and make an effort. If you can manage all of that, you’re sure to enjoy yourself while dating abroad.